If you expect to get advice like, “grow a five o’clock shadow” or “work out”, you’re wrong. That kind of advice doesn’t fix the real problem.
What you will learn are the mental and behavioral habits that will increase your likelihood of attracting women.
How do I know this?
In a period of 4 months, I transformed myself from someone who struggled to interact with women with confidence into someone who often had spontaneous positive interactions with women as I went about daily life. That’s right. By accident.
I want you to let go and allow me to indulge your mind with an alternative reality of what it takes to become that guy that women want to talk with, spend time with, and date.
So are you ready? Lets get started!
Ask empowering questions
You’re walking down the street and see a beautiful woman walking past you and you have the urge to approach her. What is going through your mind?
Most likely you’re asking yourself questions like, “what if she doesn’t like me?” or “what if I get embarrassed?”
There are two types of questions: empowering questions, and disempowering questions. Empowering questions cause you to take action, and disempowering ones causes you to freeze up.
The types of questions you ask yourself effects what you chose to focus on and thus, how you’ll feel.
When you focus on what can go wrong, you get approach anxiety. But when you focus on what can go right or what you can learn from the situation, you will feel empowered.
Men who expect women to want to engage with them ask questions that guide their mind to focus on the desired outcome. If you focus on what you want you’ll feel excited; if you focus on what you don’t want, you’ll feel nervous.
The difference between a man who interacts confidently with women on a consistent basis and a man who doesn’t, comes down to the difference in the questions they consistently ask themselves.